There are certain signs that one associates with a fulfilling Christian dating relationship. If the following signs are present in your relation, then you are on the right path.
- Both or either of you are completely over the 'ex'. Many relationships get spoiled due to the shadowy presence of 'ex' in the relationship. How? You talk about the person or compare your lover with your 'ex'. This is sign of an unhealthy relationship. Yes, it is good to know about the past and who were there in previous relationship but lingering on the memory or letting it effect your current relationship is disastrous. It is really good if neither of you mention the 'ex' and have moved forward in life.
- It is a good sign if the partner is vulnerable in front you. Now, nobody wants people to see their vulnerbale or weak side, that is why, we always have this guard up and about us. We measure our words and behave according to codes of conduct. Now thats good one can say but this same guarding of feelings should not be between two people who love each other deeply. They shjould be able to let the other perosn see their weak and vulnerable side, they should become their mutual confidante. If this is lacking, then either of the partner is not committed fully. When two people love each other deeply, there shoud not be any unspoken feeling or holding back of emotions.
- You should have sense of humor. Nothing pleasures a man more rather than seeing his beloved crackle into laughter hearing his jokes. Men take pride in this fact of making their lady love happy. So, if you have this sense of humor, use it efficiently charm your lady. If you already have, you are on the direct road to happiness!
- Respect each other's privacy. Even if you both are connected to the soul, it is beneficial to respect each others' privacy. Never interfere in such situations or constantly nag; it irritates. Instead give the person time to recover, he ./ she will automatically come to you with their worrisome thoughts and problems.
- Be the pillar of support for your partner. Depend on each other in tough times; these moments are the testing times for any relationship. It is easier to promose or pledge togetherness till eternity and it is as much difficult to fulfill in times of need. If your relationship can sustain this period, your relationship is secured for ever. Bit by bit a relation evolves and matures, it is essential to stick around in times of need!
- It is important that your partner treats your family members with mutual love and respect. There are millions of couples who get along together well but they cannot see eye to eye when it comes to the question of family and adjusting with them. If your partner gives equal respect to your family members, you should be doubly happy.
